Study Hard and Get Straight ‘A’s
“Study hard and get straight ‘A’s — that’s what I flippantly used to tell the kids as they went off to school. Today I will find out my Chemotherapy.on what is arguably the most important test of my life. It’s not you get an actual score from 0 to 100. If you get 100 on this test, you don’t get an ‘A’ , a big gold star, and congratulations all around. You get to have
Apparently only 4 of 100 women with early-stage invasive breast cancer benefit from chemotherapy1, and we’re all aware of its toxic nature and the resulting side effects, most notably hair loss. So, now they have a test called Oncotype DX that can help you find out if chemotherapy is mandated in your specific case. Oncotype DX gives you personalized information about your individual breast cancer diagnosis. If your score is low, no chemotherapy for you. If it’s high then chemotherapy is definitely prescribed in your case. If you get a score in the middle then you must decide for yourself if the risk of recurrence outweighs your fear of the treatment.
I’ve been waiting three weeks for the results of this test and part of me just wants to find out the score so I can make a decision and get on with my life. The other part of me, a bigger part than I’m willing to admit even to myself, doesn’t even want to go to the appointment. It wants to ignore this is happening to me and get on a plane and go somewhere sunny where I will lay on the beach drinking Mai Tais and reading sexy novels.
There have been many times in my life when people have told me I’m courageous, or even fearless, as if the two words are interchangeable. I never think of myself this way. I’m certainly not fearless as I’m frightened of many, many things, including clowns and things that go bump in the night. What others see as courageous was most likely me running away from something I feared even more than what I’d chosen to act on.
So today I once again forge through. I will do what needs doing although I don’t want to. I will get out of bed, I will get dressed, I will put my make-up on (for one can’t go into battle without war paint), I will go to the office, and when it’s time I will pick my sister up and we will go and find out my score. For the first time in my life….I’m hoping I flunked a test.
1 Lancet 1996 Apr 20; 347(9008):1006-71